Everyone wants happy, successful children, but everyone parents in a way that increases the chance that this will happen. The reasons are simple: parenting great kids is a lot of work. It's uninterrupted, consistent, hands-on dirty work at times, but if you delegate parent's work to teachers, youth leaders, or someone other than yourself, then your kids don't end up getting what they need. What do they need? Well, they don't need more after school programs, computer classes, or the latest game.
They need discipline, chores, family dinners and engaged adults who are willing to be parents and not friends.
Parenting will always be the toughest job any of us can take on, but if you decide to take it on, do it with the commitment and follow through you give your other jobs. You cannot parent part-time, nor can you take a sabbatical when times get tough with your kids. Signing your kid up for one more class can never fix what is broken at home.
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